Panfilia?

Uh, hi. Just wondering about Panfilia. It's not quite the same as bisexuality? I guess when you're a panphile, you're attracted to personality and stuff... regardless of gender. I'm a Christian, and I think I'm a panphile... pretty sure because I'm attracted to how the person is, not interested in the body, except for the eyes. How is this for a Christian?

Hi

Panfilia is a fairly unknown term, but Wikipedia describes it as follows: Panphilia comes from the Greek pan, meaning "all". Panphilia is sometimes described as the ability to love a person regardless of gender. Some panphiliacs believe that gender has no meaning for them but that they are attracted to others on a deeper level: it is human or personality-oriented.

Many bisexuals will also describe their orientation in a similar way - that they are attracted to people and not to gender. But it seems that panphilia also involves ideas that gender (not biological sex) is created by society and that what is considered feminine and masculine is something that is learned.

You don't say how old you are, and it's difficult to guide you about your personal sexuality when we know so little about you. Sexuality develops differently in each of us, and during puberty, attractions and desires can be unstable and changeable. The best thing for you would be to talk to someone you trust so that you can put your thoughts and feelings into words. Sometimes, we complicate things with orientation and emotions in our minds, and it helps to talk things out and share these thoughts with someone we trust.

The Bible's framework for sexual intimacy, regardless of our sexual orientation, is within the framework of marriage between a man and a woman. God created us with two genders so that the sexual union would be between man and woman. In the biblical sense, sex and marriage are about two genders, two different genders, becoming a couple. Otherwise, you can, of course, have many different relationships, friendships, and connections, but sexual relationships only have this framework if you want to follow the Bible's rules.

Kind regards, BoyandGirl.info

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