I think the idea of saving myself sexually for my future husband is really great, and I certainly want to wait till I get married before I have sex.However, I...
Hi! I like your website!I’m a single guy, 21 years old. I really love God and want to follow Him with all my heart. In my social circles (Christian) there are...
Hi. I’m a girl of 19, and I’ve had sex with my boyfriend. I’m quite sure that I’m pregnant, as I haven’t had my period. What should I do? I don’t feel ready...
What does the Bible say about those who have had premarital sex?
I can’t find a Bible verse that says that it is sin to live together, so why is it sin?
Hello! I'm in a phase in my life where I think: "When I get married and can FINALLY have sex, then I will be happy". I have managed to trick myself into...
Is it OK to have anal sex before marriage?
What are healthy boundaries in a relationship? (For someone who is soon engaged and married) What is lawful and what is good in God's eyes?
Hi. I'm a 17-year-old girl. I have had sex, but I'm not married yet. I hope to marry a Christian man sometime in the future because I am a Christian myself.
Have you got any tips how I can get a girlfriend?
Hi,I’m a man of 29. I want to marry my girlfriend, and I’m wondering if there’s anywhere that says that I should get married in a church? I’m also wondering...
I’ve been really moved by a recent campaign against child marriage. What do you think about child marriage? Was it normal in Bible times? I think it’s terrible...
I’m 19, and engaged! We are both virgins and will wait till marrriage before we have sex. But where are the limits? We’ve agreed not to touch each other, but...
What is petting? Is it sex?
Hi, I’ve got a great friend who I really like, and have started to wonder if we should start to date. A lot of people have asked if we are dating, or are in...
Hi! I’m a Christian guy, and since I went to high school I’ve been interested in other guys. I’ve never let my feelings develop into anything else, and am quite...
Hi! I’ve been thinking a bit about marriage recently. I’m not going to get married, but I would like to know what the Bible says so that I can know if a...
Girl 20 yearsMy best friend just got engaged and it makes me feel so alone. Because I just realize more and more that her children will probably be like 10...
I’ve written down some reasons for sex before marriage, could you write some answers or thoughts about what I’ve written?In Norway today the average age at...
I have had a boyfriend for about 6 months now. We have not had sex, because both of us wish to wait until marriage. We strive to have good boundaries. Where is...
Hello. I have read a bit in the Bible, and I think it’s a bit difficult to find out what the Bible actually says about getting married. Is getting married the...
Hi!I’m wondering if I have to have a Christian boyfriend when I’m a Christian? There’s a boy I like a lot, and he likes me. I’m just wondering if its OK, to...
My partner and I have both got ME. What should we do in terms of getting married and having children?We’ve been talking about a small wedding.
Hi, Where in the Bible does it explicitly say that people must be married to have intercourse, and how does the Bible define marriage? Marriage in the Bible...
Male and female genitals are very different, but they are created in such a way that they fit perfectly together.
Marriage has been the boundary line God has put around human sex life for all of Christian history. However, it can be hard to be motivated to put this value...
How do you think through this with your girlfriend?
Marriage is important for God. Before there were any other institutions, before any nations emerged, and long before the church existed, God created marriage.
Checklists, analyses, rollercoaster emotions, and devious plans are normal when you are looking for the right partner. Perhaps Ingebjørg’s five tips can help?
Yes, you read correctly: God loves sex, and you can too!
Are sexual feelings sin? Is it OK that I have such a strong desire to sleep with my boyfriend or girlfriend? How can I relate to these feelings? In this article...
Perhaps you have the impression that God is against sex. Maybe you think He is a joy killer who says ‘no’ to something in life that’s both good and exciting.
God created sex, not just so that we would enjoy marriage, but also so we could have children. Children are a gift and not an accident. If you couldn’t imagine...
‘Do you think there’s someone out there who hasn’t slept with anyone yet? Do you think there’s anyone out there for me? I really want to be the first one, the...
The thought of having sex before marriage was unthinkable for me. Sex has been, and is, something great, something important and exclusive that I wanted to...
‘They’re all scumbags’
How is it possible to live in purity both in thoughts and actions when your body trembles with a longing for sex? These feelings aren’t wrong, after all it is...
Just now, right before I get married, I would like to talk about some things I wish someone had told me before I entered a relationship.
There’s no growth without conflict! Romantic ideas often take over when you dream about a romantic partner.
Three years into our marriage, my wife, Trisha, woke up in the middle of the night and realized I wasn’t in bed. She walked out into the living room and as soon...
How can you find someone who suits you, who is similar, who has the same attitudes and values, who is dreaming about a person like you, and who would value who...
Most of us can be rather preoccupied with finding the right person to marry. But how can we find out if we are a good match? Below are a number of questions...
When two people have sex, very strong emotions are created, and they become emotionally connected on a deep level. Many have experienced that it is hard to...
There’s a Norwegian fairy tale called ‘Askeladden’ (the ash lad), in which a seemingly insignificant boy wins both the princess and the kingdom, and they live...
Nudity is one of society's big dilemmas. While advertising posters and online newspapers overflow with naked bodies, young Norwegians refuse to shower naked...
You can call me old-fashioned, but when I got married last June, I was a virgin. And yes, it was worth it.
Is the church functioning the way it should, if young people are afraid of being single for life? Pastor Sam Allberry doesn’t think so. ‘The blood of Jesus is...
