Sexual identity (or sexual orientation) means who you fall in love with, who you are sexually attracted to, and who you want to date.
Not everyone thinks sexual identity or orientation is all that important, and some people don’t want to define themselves as one or the other. Some people might not even know what sexual identity they have, and others might need more time to discover what it is. There are many people who do not want (or do not think it’s important that) their feelings decide their identity.